The semester that I met my lovely wife, Hallie, I remember a phone call with my mom that went something like this:
MOM: Are you dating anybody?
ME: Not really.
MOM: If you would just cut your hair, you'd be able to find someone who would date you because then they'd see you really are handsome.
ME: Well, I don't want to date anyone who is so superficial that my hair would be that big of a deal. If they don't like that my hair is black or long or whatever it is, then that's not the type of person I want to date.
MOM: You look so much better with your hair shorter and not dyed black though.
ME: I like it and I don't think it makes a difference. They're either going to like me for me or they're not and that's what I care about.
MOM: Ok, but you're never going to get serious with anyone until you cut your hair.
Hallie and I had just started hanging out just before the end of the same semester the above picture was taken. Nothing had really happened, but was on the verge-or so it seemed. It was only when I finally cut my hair that we started dating and that things got serious.
Bottom line: Whether we like it or not, mom's are usually right. Most of us fought it our whole lives, but the older you get, the more you have to swallow your pride when you see that 95% of all the things your mom (and/or dad) have always said-that you didn't want to hear because you thought you knew better-were always right. And in this particular instance, she could not have been more right. My hair was soo sick. It makes me laugh that I even had friends, let alone girls that would date me.